One of our most popular posts is How to Be a Good Wife 1950s Style. Dr. Nancy says that’s because we are living in a world where women just cannot figure out why they are so damn stuck. This article helps to remind them what we are up against — or under.Facebook COO, Sheryl Sandberg, says that until women are equal partners at home, they will never be equal in the workplace. So, in the interests of women’s equality, WomenSpeak offers:
How To Be a Good Husband 2012 Style
- Have dinner ready.
Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time. This is a way of letting her know that you have been thinking about her and are concerned about her needs. Most women are hungry when they come home from work and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.
- Prepare yourself.
Take fifteen minutes to rest so that you are refreshed when she arrives. Wash your pits, brush your teeth and be fresh looking. She has just been with a lot of work-weary people. Be a little positive and upbeat. Try to be a little more interesting. Her stressful day may need a lift.
- Clear away the clutter.
Make one last trip through the main part of the house. Gather up your socks, clothes, toys, magazines, and newspapers. Wipe the beer stains off the coffee table. Your wife will feel that she has reached her haven of rest and order. Doing this for her will give you a lift also.
- Pick up the children from school or daycare.
Take a few minutes to wash their faces and hands. Help with their homework and prepare their lunches for tomorrow. Arrange the next day’s carpool, homework and permissions. That way she can enjoy these blessed creatures you created together.
- Minimize all noise.
At the time of her arrival, eliminate all the noises, especially the TV and radio. Exceptions: you running the washer, dryer, dishwasher, and vacuum will be music to her ears. Get your children started on a fun activity before she walks in the door. Be happy to see your wife and greet her with a warm smile.
- Do not greet your wife with problems or complaints.
Don’t complain when she is late for dinner. Count this as minor when compared to what she had to go through today.
- Make her comfortable.
Have her lean back in a comfortable chair or suggest that she lie down for a few minutes in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for her. Arrange her pillow and offer to take off her shoes. Speak in a low, soft, soothing and pleasant voice. Allow her to relax and unwind before dinner.
- Listen to her.
You may have a dozen things to tell her but the moment of her arrival is not the time. Let her speak first.
- Make the evening hers.
She is special! Never complain that she does not take you out to dinner or to other pleasant entertainment. Instead, try to understand her world of strain and pressure, her need to unwind and relax. Remember to take turns enjoying the beautiful life you have created together. Make your home a place you can both relax in body and spirit.
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