TWO PIECES OF BREAD WITH MEAT, CHEESE ETC. OR TO BE PLACED BETWEEN:
The Sandwich Generation According to Webster
By Dr. Nancy D. O’Reilly, Psy.D.
“Two pieces of bread with meat, cheese, etc.; or to be placed between” pretty well sums it up for Baby Boomers who find themselves caring for two generations. They may still be parenting adult or younger children (including second families, late-life children, adopted or inherited children) and also caring increasingly for their aging parents.
To make it even harder, Boomers see this time of their lives as their opportunity to finally fly as free, independent entities. You are ready to grasp your passion, or start a second career, say glass blowing large butterflies! You are about to take wing, or pick up your trusty glass blower and Brrrrrring, it’s your parent’s neighbor saying your father is roaming the neighborhood and is not sure where he lives or what day it is.
This moment of clarity takes you to another level of understanding life as it really is. Just about the time you think you have your ducks in a row, the wind blows or horns sound and they all fly away. Suddenly, it’s time to re-evaluate your Master Plan. What will your next move be?
How to Survive the Boomer Generation
I have talked with many friends and clients who are now caring in some way for aging parents, adult children, and even young grandchildren on nearly a day-to-day basis. That is a plate full, and YOU are the meat and cheese in this sandwich. Here are some ideas to help keep your ducks from pooping on your glass butterflies or shiny airplane wings.
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Some advance planning now can limit the frustration and add to rewards of caring for parents. We Baby Boomers are smart and resourceful, and we will make sure our parents have the services they need to be cared for in a fashion full of flair and fun and in just the way they want to be treated: fairly, with respect and with understanding.
We wish all fellow Boomers the best possible experience as filling inside the sandwich! It is part of life and if we can help you, let us know. Have a great life; you deserve it.